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Contact
Email
Phone
(757) 663-5272
Address
5442 Tidewater Drive, Norfolk, VA, 23509, US
Professional
About
Mary G. Commander is a distinguished attorney with deep roots in the Hampton Roads community, where she was born and raised. Her legal journey took her to Richmond for law school, but her commitment to the Norfolk area has remained steadfast throughout her 35-year career. Specializing in adoption law, Mary is dedicated to guiding families through the complexities of the legal process with compassion and expertise. At the Law Offices of Mary G. Commander, the focus is on providing clients with a seamless experience, ensuring that every legal service is tailored to meet their unique needs. Mary’s extensive experience within the local court systems means that clients can rest assured they are in capable hands—no trial-and-error approach here. This firm prides itself on delivering reliable, effective solutions from the very start, making it the ideal choice for individuals seeking trusted legal counsel in adoption and family law matters. Mary's dedication to her clients is mirrored by her talented associate, Attorney Tatiana Mendez, who joined the firm in 2016. Together, they navigate a variety of family law cases, providing a holistic approach that addresses both the legal and emotional aspects of adoption. Tatiana also brings expertise in misdemeanor criminal and traffic cases, further expanding the firm’s ability to serve the community. Choosing the Law Offices of Mary G. Commander means opting for a seasoned team that prioritizes your family’s future, ensuring that your legal journey is as smooth and straightforward as possible. When it comes to adoption and family law in Norfolk, Mary G. Commander stands out as a reliable advocate committed to achieving the best outcomes for her clients.
About Adoption Law
Adoption attorneys guide families through the legal process of adopting a child. They handle all legal requirements to create new family bonds. Common matters include domestic adoption, international adoption, stepparent adoption, foster care adoption.
Credentials
Education
1981 University of Richmond, The T. C. Williams School of Law JD - Juris Doctor 1977 Old Dominion University B.A.
Languages
Spanish | English
Recognition & Involvement
Awards
2015 Client's Choice Award, Avvo 2015 Top 50 Women Lawyers in Virginia, SuperLawyers 2015 Best Lawyers in Hampton Roads, Coastal Virginia Magazine 2015 Legal Elite Family Law, Virginia Business Magazine 2015 Family Law, SuperLawyers
Publications
2015 Family Law Quarterly Ethics For Mediators 2008 Adoption: Practice and Forms For The Virginia Lawyer Fourth edition of treatise 1991 University of Richmond Law Review Annual Review-Law of Workers' compensation 1981 University of Richmond Law Review "Education or Discrimination," Minimum Competency Testing
Associations
2013 - Present American Bar Association Fellow 2013 - Present Virginia State Bar, Family Law Section Board of Governors 2007 - Present National Center For Family Law Board Member 2004 - Present International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Member 2004 - Present Virginia Academy of Collaborative Professionals Member
Speaking
2015 Mediator Certification Training Support, Equitable Distribution and Divorce 2015 Annual Advanced Family Law Conference Ethics For Lawyers 2014 Continuing Legal Education Servicemembers Civil Relief Act 2011 Mediator Training Spousal Support 2011 2011 Virginia Women's Conference Divorce
Updated: Jun 24, 2026